http://big-girls-dont-cry.com/2008/12/19/childless/ A Directory of Beautiful Things on the Web for Big Girls Tue, 27 Jul 2010 09:41:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://big-girls-dont-cry.com/2008/12/19/childless/comment-page-1/#comment-300 robin Gulack Thu, 23 Apr 2009 18:40:49 +0000 http://big-girls-dont-cry.com/?p=167#comment-300 It is very noble of a woman to not have kids when she knows she does not want them. She is doing unwanted kids a kindness by not having them. She is sparing them a life of misery and unhappiness and she will never have anything to be ashamed of or be sorry about. Perhaps she does not want to be reminded of the pain that was possibly inflicted on her by people when she was growing up. Those who pressure her into having them when she does not want them are not her friends and they do not care about her feelings or the feelings of the unwanted kids. What they want is for her to feel the same possible unhappiness and resentment they are feeling and why should she make herself a part of it? It is very noble of a woman to not have kids when she knows she does not want them. She is doing unwanted kids a kindness by not having them. She is sparing them a life of misery and unhappiness and she will never have anything to be ashamed of or be sorry about. Perhaps she does not want to be reminded of the pain that was possibly inflicted on her by people when she was growing up. Those who pressure her into having them when she does not want them are not her friends and they do not care about her feelings or the feelings of the unwanted kids. What they want is for her to feel the same possible unhappiness and resentment they are feeling and why should she make herself a part of it?

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